Bee I'm sorry you are still not getting the right treatment. I hope they can work out what's wrong with your health and get you some help.
I cannot advise anyone on how to deal with MLC discussions, I think they are a lost cause and in my experience you always end up hurt (more than before talking). I now avoid ALL R talks (or D talks) simply because I've learnt my lesson: talking with the current version of my H hurts. It hurts a lot. I cannot get through to him, and anything I try to say will either be seen as "lecturing him" or pursuing, or my personal favourite "using the kids against him".
Get well soon sweetie xxx
"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"
“There is freedom waiting for you, On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?”
