Hiya Bee, It's good to hear the update from you. I read somewhere that the more you give to a MLCer the more he/she will take. The author actually likened the MLCer to Hitler. The more ground that was offered up, the more he took.
You are going to continue to pretzel yourself just to keep the waters calm and yet it isn't going to be enough or the "right thing" for him...
To be honest, I don't even think it's about the requests of the MLCer because you could do everything they request and then some.... And they will learn its not what they wanted or needed and then ask for something different. I actually think it's them trying to exert their control over the LbS more than anything.
I hope you feel better soon and get some relief/answers to your health condition.
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16