Oh......and btw Mighty.......my ex apparently was having neck and shoulder pain and was discovered to have an old fracture in his neck. Now he can't surf... or bike.... or backpack. Pretty sure running is out too. Since surfing was his antidepressant, and a huge part of his lifestyle and image....I feel sorry for his wife. I'm sure he's miserable, and without his youthful surfer body the 18 year difference in their ages is going to start being more obvious.
I really don't wish him ill, I feel bad for him....but glad I'm not living with his anger and bitterness!
