Love your bro! He didn't want to get icky MLC cooties on him!
It's sad that he can't just give your daughter his time and patience without trying to drag her into contact with his new family. But I guess that would mean admitting that he has some fault in creating this situation.
And the wedding......good luck with that. She's getting a cheater capable of prolonged deception, she's getting a guy who never would have stayed with her if she hadn't gotten pregnant.
You sound great though. Hope new bf is still treating you the way you deserve to be treated. You survived one of the worst sitches here, you deserve a medal!!!