Went to visit a friend this weekend, and I had a great time Friday and Saturday night. The drive down and back Friday early and Sunday sucked (4 hours each way), but it was worth it. FWIW, I did talk to women both nights, but I didn't make any passes, kept it fun and friendly. It was good for my confidence as I got good reactions.

W went out with a girl friend Friday to a bar (she told me this, I didn't ask), and hung out at home Saturday. She did get a bunch of boxes, and she says it's for packing stuff up and moving to storage at some point. She moved her bathroom stuff out of the master bath, so she can get ready in the morning and night without going through the MBR. I think this is good TBH.

Still, didn't discuss R, only talked about S. She's leaving to visit a friend Thursday, so I'll have S to myself (with help from our parents). I'll probably be thinking she's doing the worst while there, but I'm hoping I don't think about her too much (I feel I'm making progress in detaching TBH).

Anyway, got a charity golf tourney tomorrow, so that should be fun too.

Just hanging on, GAL, 180, detaching, and I'll see what happens. My gut tells me the destination is D, but there's no reason for me to give up at this point.

Good luck to you all, and thanks.


M 40 W 40
S 2.5
Together 13 years
Married 11 years
BD: 09/23/16
PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16
Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16
A ended 10/10/16