What is the ultimatum? You said she is making you sell everything and give half or what? Maybe I missed it
Pretty much, after she walked out she demanded I come to an agreement to sale everything and give her half or she would go the courts.
In her long rambling communications and meetings with me since walking out she would rant and rave about abuse and finally being strong, free, and getting what she deserves. It was like trying to reason with one of those homeless religious fanatics you see on the street.
I found out later she had been planning this for months, but used a "gas lighting" event to push up her timeline and spring the trap on me. Meanwhile I was in la la land, worrying about trying to save for our next vacation, how to get her a lavish birthday gift, and trying to take care of things around the home.
