Hey JK, just catching back up on where you are. That text conversation must have been exhausting for you. I do get how letting that out can make you feel better though. I went through similar a few months ago and it was like opening a valve and letting out a ton of built up pressure. You just feel better afterwards, like a weights been lifted.

Unfortunately, sandi and Sara are right. We need to limit that type of response bc in the end it's counterproductive. It only reinforces the negative perception our Ws have of us. I know in my situation it did.

That said, hang in there brother. Yours is a very difficult path. You're doing well!


Me39
M11 : T13
D9
BD 5/31/16
In House S until 6/21/17
Divorced 10/5/18