Are you saying that this might help me with my interactions with him now or just if we reconcile?
I think 5LL can be used for improving any relationship. If you can work out what your LBS likes in terms of interactions and focus on that I am sure that can only help. In terms of will it help now or if you reconcile, I think both potentially but I think like myself a focus on lovingly detaching right now is most important, together with GAL etc. Understanding the WS' LL is something that is perhaps useful now for when you do have interactions, for example, my W's LL is acts of words of affirmation and acts of service I believe. I need to find out though. If you read PsySaras thread you will see that her H was away from the home and in a R with OW etc. He has moved back home and she is focusing on his LL, physical touch etc.
I hope this helps. Take it easy. Be kind to you.
Surfer.
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