I quickly reviewed the site this morning. I agree, best to continue parrallel parenting. I have just had enough of XW and needed to let that out. As time goes by am realizing I will never figure out her circus and that it will not get any better than this between her and I.
On a more positive note, spent most of Saturday at home and enjoyed the weather outside. Went to church this morning with the boys. Going to take them to a playground later and visit my parents or sister on such a beautiful November day.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
That was very brave of you to share your entire convo and all of your slips. We know you will just dust yourself off and keep moving forward.
Sandi2 or others - Many of us have heard from our W's what JimKao shared with us - "I can't fix what you broke" or My W says that our R is unrepairable.
What is the best answer? Last time I heard that I just stayed quiet. Should I have said something like - You must be in an awful place if you feel that any situation is unrepairable?
I certainly know calling her a "quitter" or telling her "I'd do anything" etc, etc would be the wrong move.
I'd love to hear the "right" response.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017
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H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
