It's not much of soothing as much as waiting them out. It's important that you understand that the primary focus while dealing with a mlc is to focus on you and only you. Just as they are focusing on only them. It's not the point for the lbs to sit and watch and look for opportunities to test. It's more of a focus on you and wait til they come to you thing from my understanding.
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17