So part of the last resort technique is that if the WAS suggests family time you take the opportunity. It gives the import for you to use your new skills and to show the spouse the changed you. Now, with that being said. You really need to work on the process. Detach. You mentioned you are struggling there. We all do. Just be better than you were yesterday. And tomorrow be better than you were today. I think you have made some changes which is why she has come closer. But that doesn't mean you are out of the woods. Those are temperature checks for sure. Be ready for a couple of punches to follow over the next few days/week. I.e. "Just because I want to spend the day as a family doesn't mean I want to be married to you"


34, xw33
M-10, T-18
2D (8 and 5)
Ilybinilwy-1/16
EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend)
Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated)
W moved out-8/16
W Filed 11/21/16
D final 1/30/17