I have always described my W and I think she would as well as tough, strong, and not dramatic. She keeps things inside to some extent but also not afraid to speak her mine. I have always said she is more mature than me... but recently I would say that is not the case. She is still a little girl at times. She shows love by servicing.... She has always bought me more clothes than I can wear. She enjoys the new dog we have, unconditional love I think it was that means. In our marriage, we have had a few times where we spoke very little for 1-2 days. This is what my W would do when she was upset with me. Looking back, she might not show her feelings very well. She is not a talker. In our old house, we finished a basement together. She likes the fact that I can be a white collar worker.... but also fix the house and the cars.

I am surprised how hard it is for me to answer this question Sandi.... I never thought we had any real issues in our M..... I thought we were fine. And now today, she looks at me like she used too.... and not it feels like we split up for 6 months (although I did not know it,...) and now she is back to normal, like 10 years ago normal.


H (me) 52, W 42
M 15
D14, S12
PA June and Sept 2016
Found out Sept, confronted Oct
NC with OM since Oct, remorseful
Dating since Nov