Don't Push!!! A Newbies MUST Read.

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It is difficult to read this without saying 'why?'

OK, so the original poster lays down an argument from an MLC'er. Being simplistic, the MLC'er wants the LBS to go and they comply. LBS looks for signs of recovery and gets upset that MLC'er doesn't want to know. MLC'er, however, gets annoyed that LBS handles separation well and does everything they want, but feels pressure when LBS then complies again to try and sooth the MLC'er.

Am I just reading this wrong or does the whole MLC'er/LBS situation just seem like one long contradiction? I people wonder while us LBS's seem confused and want to quit!