Sandi you are absolutely right. She has always been a very smart girl and has been reading on how to end an A and what to expect. Your input is valuable and always appreciated. With the help of this forum I find myself having more patience then before. My W is really trying and I can see it in her efforts and I do understand that she has a long recovery ahead. We slept in separate beds but she invited me back to our MBR this week. I apologize for not updating as often but as my MR is still ongoing I will try to update more if there are any changes but so far I feel that we are on the right path of recovery. I'm not pushing her but just being there for her for support per Cadet's reccomendation and so far she has responded quite positively.


- M:32 and WW:31 D4
- Married 5 years, 11 years together
- ilybinilwy 9/28 EA Confirmed + request for divorce
- 10/16 Affair ended
- 10/28 WW wants to reconcile after I agree on divorce
- Current - Piecing