MJTT, I'm following your thread and offer any support I can. My wife and I are in a very similar situation and I've just started posting here within the last few days. The advice offered here for your situation has been very helpful to inspire me in these moments of hopelessness. So please keep posting, as will I.

Here's to staying strong for our wives!

M46 W48
M11 T14
S11 D8
BD: 2016/05/27
In-home separation: 2016/11/23
Nesting: 2017/06/11
W moves out: 2018/01/07
W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12
I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14