Hi kml, There is really nothing I can do about the debt. We remortgaged the house so I'm responsible for half of it. I live in a small village and I'm 55 so finding a job will be practically impossible.
I suggested selling the house and paying the mortgage off that way, but he won't discuss it. He says he will dip into his pension to pay it off!
I will have to cross that bridge when I come to it. God knows what's ahead of me, at least I have my kids.