And so it continues .........

[mleigh4]

Hi Lou,

I have been keeping up on your sitch, not really knowing what to say, everyone is giving you great advice.

I hate this has taken the turn it has for you, I am sending love and hugs your way.

One thing I have learned through this is that this is about them, not us. There must be something very off, your H is very lost and quite selfish for doing this once again.

I admire your choice to stay friendly, it will sting him in the a** someday. I admit, it's a big reason I am friends with my H. It's good you are slowing down, not pushing yourself and going at your own pace. Be good to yourself.

I wish I had some great advice or message for you, you have been there for me so many times.....I'm just feeling in a place now, where I think at some point, it's best for us to just move on and leave them be. Not very positive or inspirational, I know, but.....we can only be drug along on their path for so long.

It's time for Lou to start herself a new life, to look in the mirror and accept that you have been on one heck of a ride and you made it through a better and stronger person. You raised loving boys and you will be there for each other. That's a lot to be proud of, please see that, what is real in front of you, and not the foggy mess going on in your H head. Choose to live in the real world, see yourself for the amazing person you are, smile, laugh, enjoy the things you love......and leave H to crazy train.

((((Hugs))))
M