Thank you j2O, I don't take his comments about why he is leaving to heart, they are rubbish and untrue. He came out with what he needed to to justify why he is leaving. If lack of sexual attraction is all he could come up with and in all other areas I am perfect, then I am very happy with that, because the last time he left he went into assignation of everything about me and our r mode.
HaWho, thank you for your words, it is very helpful to hear from someone who has suffered from depression themselves. We are blessed here to have that insight from you, so thank you for sharing your personal struggles with us.
H does seem intent on finding "his one" so will no doubt will take little time to seek her out, so even if he does come through this and see the light I am not sure I will want him back knowing he has had another relationship or even just physical encounters with what could be several other women. It was hard enough getting myself past the last one, despite her being a crazy woman with issues.
So its back to trying to move along with my own life and let him go on his merry way again and leave him be. This time it will hopefully be a bit easier as I was only really getting to grips with the end of the grieving stages before he re entered my life again.
