Cherry, I think by not doing any additional harm, e.g by being mean, biatchy etc, is actually doing a lot.
In their confused, wayward states, it may be that the nice things that we do won't touch them the way they should. But nothing wrong with planting a few seeds here and there.
But they will definitely notice anything 'nasty' or 'mean' that we do, because they're looking for examples to reinforce the hateful image they have of us.
So being pleasant, civil, not rocking the boat (unless firm boundaries are needed) can help a lot.
Have a great weekend, Cherry!
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
