Bright - phfew, that's great you don't need surgery. I can't earn too many brownie points for the breakfast. I was already making something for the kids and just offered him some as well.
More text spewing from h. H did not feel well yesterday. S13 thought he didn't have a game last night and apparently told h so. In actuality s13 did have a game. At dinner he told h. H said he already made plans. Guess h wasn't too sick afterall. It was hard to see the look of disappointment on s13's face.
As h was leaving he gave this totally fake cough. Ha ha. I did laugh as of course, if he was so sick he'd be in bed.
I took the kids to the game. An hour and a half later, I happen to see two texts from h. He texts that he is not feeling well and can come pick up s11 who had been under the weather mid-week. S11 says he wants to stay. So I text h that we are set at the game.
H texts me a nasty message telling me to stop playing idiot games (?!?!?) and stop wasting his time and energy all the time. Lately this is his refrain: that I waste all his time and am this total nuisance in his life. Kind of funny since I steer clear of him.
I text back that s said he wants to stay. H said s11 is sick and should go home. Umm. Of course, if h was so worried about s11 being sick he should have changed his plans when he realized s13 had a game and s11 would have to come. Anyway, h shows up to the game in a total huff and tells me he is here to pick up "his" son. He comes across as the most petty teenager.
Next time I will have s11 call h directly and let them work it out themselves. I guess I am back to bad HaWho.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
