My obsession with confrontation is that the secret of the A I am holding is driving me crazy to be honest with you - and stopping me from at least getting everything out in the open.
Nobody is stopping you. Go ahead and confront her about the affair. What do you plan on saying past the part of telling her you know?
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No matter where it leads. I feel every day is a mind game because we are both living a lie - she with the affair and me with the secret of knowing. I can't imagine this is positive!
No matter where it leads? Okay, does that mean you are prepared to S and/or D?
I think I know how your W must feel when you are ignoring what she tries to tell you.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
