Cherry, I agree. Don't reach out by deliberately calling him or texting him. But if your mil should offer, I don't see why not. Let the squirrel come closer first.

You can be civil and friendly without being a friend. Don't go out of your way to fix his problems. But if it's in your way, then it's your call. Just don't be nasty about it and shove things in his face.


You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.