Hi Cherry, I think it's good that he came - even if he was pretty withdrawn and didn't engage much. At least he does feel comfortable enough to come around for dinner.

In your sitch, I don't believe you reaching out would be the right way to go at this point. He has chosen to leave and I would respect that, leave him be and go about your own weekend with as light a heart as possible. When you see him, you can of course leave him with some light and positive memories of those little interactions.

Watch out for the nurturing mind reading - he may or may not have had a home cooked meal and that's up to him really....He's a grown up and can cater for himself. Whilst you may feel some compassion, I think it is important to let him walk the path he needs to walk.

Hope you have a lovely weekend! Got any nice plans?? :)xx


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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus