HaWho, sorry about your BD anniversary… It is a long time considering that your MLCer lives at home. But, it is not too long for an average MLC. I’ve been reading your posts all along and I’m still amazed how your H exhibits all the classic signs of MLC and actually reenacting things from his childhood.

I’m with you on “gift of time”, LOL. I was reading this and thinking that it didn’t apply to me. I was already a person I needed to be, so this whole experience was just a pain, no more. I was so wrong. I’ve grown so much over these years. I can see now the wisdom of these words. I think I still need more time, haha. This is why I’m not pocking at H and making him move one way or another.

Thanks for posting your story HaWho. It gives all of us a very good idea what these MLCer are going through. I hope you did earn the brownie points for the breakfast today too! Take care and have a good weekend.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state