In your first post your WW talks about caring for you forever, and take you to the hospital if you become sick. Like many WS, I don't think your W fully grasps what a divorce will mean. Some divorced couples stay friends, but most likely you will go get your own life, and you will not stay close friends. You will have a new partner who will cuddle with you, watch TV with you, and if you get sick, your new partner will take you to the hospital, thank you very much.

It seems to me your WW wants to have her emotional cake and eat it too. She wants the reassuring emotional comfort of your marriage, but get rid of you at the same time.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final