A review of finding out about A and telling W

[Steady9]

My W went for walk with a neighbor, girlfriend today, and told her that she has been behaving poorly.. and that her and I were hitting the reset button on our relationship. Our neighbors had noticed that my W and I are were more close, holding hands or kissing or something during halloween get together. My W took the weight of the drop off in our relationship during this conversation with neighbor.

Is it unusual that a WW--would tell friend about "behaving poorly"??? seems interesting to me... also I would say would it is more light hearted versus being stressed. I know my W had been stressed out about the A.... but it seems like she is also trying to talk about it in a way to move forward.