New to the Boards. Marriage in Crisis.

[Chris73]

I'd thought I might add a few things in an effort to keep this post at the moving up.

In July I sought help from a psychiatrist. The anxiety and depression caused by this situation was keeping me from functioning normally. I was prescribed Lexapro and Wellbutrin. So far it has helped, but I would like to be medication free in the near future.

I think the hardest part is that nobody knows. Other than one long distance friend and my therapist, I haven't confided in anyone. It's extremely difficult to keep up appearances in front of family and friends. My wife and I don't fight much at all and when we do, the kids aren't around. I don't know if they suspect what's happening...