Irish - I find it quite interesting that she texts you but emails the girls. Quite ironic that she is asserting her place as their mother and yet emailing them to "communicate." Last I checked, on this planet, mothers can't parent electronically.

Sending you and your girls the very best.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced