To confront or not confront cheating W?

[MrBond]

You do realize that everything you "observe" or point out in terms of flaws or what she does or isn't doing is more of your control. You say she doesn't pay attention to you so you ignore her to control her to pay more attention. Then when she does, you say she pays TOO much attention to you but not in the way you'd like. Just seems like you're playing a game.