I totally agree with JRuss. One of the reasons I like to read through old threads is I see successful DB'ers slip then just dust off and try again. Their endurance was inspiring and let me know I could keep trying, keep fighting, I could endure.

Going through the emotions of being the LBS is grueling and agonizing. But like a seasoned veteran, you can become strong and wise. You can rise above.

M 10yrs T 13yrs
BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW
BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off
Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce
April '17-Letting go
2018 D busted
DD8, DS6, DS3