Thanks steady. I totally agree with this. It is so easy in the moment when we sense a change in the sitch to try to jump right in and be overly enthusiastic. The key as you said is to look at it from a non emotional point of view. When I do that I remember that as much as this is about my W's journey I am on a journey of my own. Not to mention being too available could scare her right back to where we were weeks ago. So back to concentrating on Sandi's rules and working on me.
Me:42 W:37 M:18 T:23 3S: 4,7,10 EA 6/16 ILYBNILWY 7/16 9/16 separate BR 10/16 Discernment Counseling She's moving out 1/17