Focus on Me and the Boys 9

[J5K]

Hope everyone is doing well.

It has been a rough week. Have not been sleeping well. Still having a hard time not thinking about xW.

xW sent me a text with her new cell phone number and asked if I could download an app for texting since she does not have international calling and text.

Last night she send a text asking if boys were up. I kindly replied that they were sleeping. Then she asks if I can have them call her before they go to bed tonight. I replied with please text at 730 pm. Then she thanked me for using the free texting app. I just replied no problem.

About an hour later she sends the following text:

Not to harp on this but what is going on with your transfer? Are you moving here or not? If you really are I think you should consider sending S4 so that he can go to Kindergarten. He has already missed 2 months...any longer and he won't be able to catch up and he'll be behind a year.

I did not respond.

Today she send the following:

xW: Not sure why you can't just talk to me instead of getting your lawyer involved
xW: Your dime I suppose.
xW: I'm taking a look at the division of property tonight. I'll send it back by Sat. So we have to move the items out by the end of this month? We'll have to coordinate a day when we can both be there so I can have access to have the movers collect my things.
xW: You have to file the paperwork to have the subsidy moved over to your account. I'm sure you don't want to have to provide me with all that sensitive banking info. If you fill it out and bring it with you on the 11th when we exchange the kids I'll be more than happy to sign it.
xW: As for my half of the storage rental for this month and S6's subsidy for the month of October (and probably November) we can deduct it from what you owe me from the sale of the bedroom furniture. I'll propose that to the lawyers...seems to make the most sense...
Me: What bedroom furniture? That furniture was mine pre marriage.
Me: It seems that there are still many issues that have to do with money.
Me: xW I cannot file the paperwork for S6's subsidy. I do not have your account and am not authorized to use it. This is not my responsibility to transfer.
xW: No there aren't any issues... it's ok if you don't understand what I'm talking about...your L can explain it to you..
xW: As for the subsidy, you have to put in YOUR account info so that they know where to send the money. Fill it out and I'll sign. I can send you the TD account number but I'm pretty sure you don't need it. I will be closing that account at the end of the year anyway.


This woman does not want to do any work. Her texting app has pictures of her all done up posing. She is the most narcissistic person I have seen. The selfishness just continues, not the woman I married and she is not the woman I would want to be with right now.

I guess I need to continue to set a boundary with her.
She has ignored my request to set a schedule to speak with the boys and just calls when she wants. I am I asking too much for her to agree to a schedule? I sent her an email before about not calling my work phone and she has ignored it.

Anyway enough rant and raving. I hope everyone has a fun weekend.