where to begin or end?

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Im really trying to stay positive while dimming, slowly im making it through the above suggested threads, and will spend the weekend out of town with my kids reading DR. Im very concerned my actions after BD have dug my hole too deep as i spent last three months trying to win her back.

I changed the deadbolt locks and will be locking everything before i leave. Im sure that will upset her as she treats the home she left as her own when shes there to get kids off to school. But i dont want her taking anymore stuff, or hiding out with him in my own home.