Ian thanks for the post. Yes there is a lot of work to be done not only with me but are whole relationship. The dynamics have changed and changed a lot. She said this morning that I need to be working on me and that there is a lot of work that needs to be done but she needs to see change in me. It's like she is a natural at this or she's been doing some reading of her own. I won't just sweep this under the rug. When we get to a point of sincerity and reconnecting, if she chooses that to happen counseling will be on the table. But for right now I'm giving her space and focusing on me and what makes me happy. Thanks again.
