msp710...as nutts said, I'm no vet either, but realize that there are alot of us here that are going thru exactly what you are going thru right now.
My W is officially moving out Saturday. Like you, I love my W and also feel that we could make things work, but as many on here have told me...this is her journey to make and she has to go thru it one way or another. I just hope she doesn't get too damaged in the process.
Take care of yourself and even more importantly, take care of your kids.
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!