Originally Posted By: RBG80
Still lots of silence from the W. Going Dark appears to be having no effect at all. Whats the best thing to do - continue and wait or well I dont know what alternatives I have.

1) How do you know theres no effect?
2) What is your proposal for an alternative?

Originally Posted By: RBG80
I am wondering if there will ever be any change to the sitch and wonder if any efforts are worth while. I'm trying to get on with my life and am keeping myself busy but it all seems so fruitless!

1) Maybe there will be a change. Maybe not. In my opinion, Id live your life as if she was not going to change her mind.
2) What do you mean by 'worthwhile' and 'fruitless'? It doesnt sound like you think this is for YOU.

It sounds like you are frustrated and impatient. What is your plan to deal with those things in a positive manner?