I am sorry you are going through this. I totally understand that you want to know what is going on but all you are doing by asking her a bunch of questions is showing her your insecurities and that's not attractive to them. As hard as it is you need to let her go about her business and focus on you. The worst thing you can do is pressure her and push her further away. Stop pursuing her and GAL. It's hard but you can do it.
Me:42 W:37 M:18 T:23 3S: 4,7,10 EA 6/16 ILYBNILWY 7/16 9/16 separate BR 10/16 Discernment Counseling She's moving out 1/17