Not as sad-Part 2

[trumpet]

Molly,

Betrayed spouses cope by giving it time, GAL'ing, and learning how to truly forgive.

I have learned so much on forgiveness in the last year.

Your anger at him right now is like trying to teach a fish to ride a bicycle. It's not gonna work.

If you can't control him, his action, and those actions will continually hurt you, stop asking for changes in him, and start asking for changes in yourself. The building is on fire - time to find the exit, and make sure you can live to get help for the others in the fire (your husband).