Not sure why you say that FG. I don't feel anger toward her at all. Early on, yes there were times that I got angry but that was more out of frustration than anything else. Now I am at a place where I see that this is something that we both need to go through to address issues in ourselves and our M.
On the mind reading, yes I still do it but without the social media and the snooping there is a lot less to read into. I think the biggest thing is that without the snooping and following her on social media my anxiety level is much lower.
Me:42 W:37 M:18 T:23 3S: 4,7,10 EA 6/16 ILYBNILWY 7/16 9/16 separate BR 10/16 Discernment Counseling She's moving out 1/17
