[BrightFuture]

Time to update. I think I will be visiting here more often as there will be no GAL for me for a while. Details to follow.

Don’t even know where to pick up from the last post. H never replied to my last text that finished the convo about my condo and me staying at our joint condo. FY, you are so right, no matter what I do or say, H is not doing anything and is not going anywhere, LOL.

You're not in the beginning STFU phase here. You have a say in your M.

Yes, I need to remember that, FY.

Job, you might be right about H being jealous about all my accomplishment, even though he didn’t seem to be a jealous person in the past. I think it irritates him that I’ve done so well without him. He might feel like a looser, because a lot of people in his surrounding know me (at the vacation home in particular) and probably questioning why he left me.

I went to the vacation home two weeks ago, and stopped at the border city to sing my final paper work for my condo – the trust agreement. So, it is all done now and I don’t have to worry about it, I hope. I didn’t work remotely this time. I told my manager at work that I needed some time off, because I was feeling stressed and overwhelmed and needed to re-charge. I did get some rest. But, also had to deal with some unwanted stuff… My GF met me at the border city and helped me at the motario office when I was singing my paper work. It was really nice. She then rode with me to the vacation home place. The bad part was that her mother tugged along. And then she was kind of a nuisance the entire weekend. She would talk over our conversations, she would talk on the phone while three of us were having dinner and having our conversation, she wanted to be entertained, taken to the beach, etc. And the she wanted to ride back with me when I was living. Thank goodness it didn’t happen. They released that it was inconveniencing everyone, since they would have to bring her over to the condo at the time when I was living, and I didn’t know the exact time when I was living. Anyway, she almost ruined my relaxing time off.

I managed to get a few minutes with my GF without her mother. I asked her a question if they heard anything from H regarding me staying at our joint condo. She said that she did not. That was a big relief. I was a bit nervous after our latest test with H. My GF told me other info though. She said the relationship between H and his crazy friend’s H are a bit strained. I wonder why is that, LOL… I guess even his crazy party friends have some boundaries.

And another thing my GF said that H mentioned is that he thinks that it will take a very crazy, twisted person to like him and all his antics. HAHAHA! (This to justify why he still has not found that person to have “harmonious” relationship with, LOL)

I haven’t heard from H since our last text exchange, until today when I received a mail from him with the joint credit card with my name. This is the card we use for business. I guess they sent new cards.

As for me… My work is crazy busy and stressful to the point that I don’t like it right now. I think all stress finally resulted in me getting sick. I came down with the bad flu, with high fever, body aches, sore throat and also stomach flu at the same time. This was on Sunday. But this is not the worst… On Monday, going downstairs, I overstepped the last step, fell off on the floor and hurt my foot. It swallowed badly next day and could barely walk. My sister took me to an urgent care yesterday and determined that I fractured my foot.

Tomorrow I am going to a specialist and I was told that I would have to wear an ortho boot. This is my right foot, so I will not be able to drive for a while. I cannot step on it and was warned not to, so I would not do more damage before the boot is put on. So, no GAL for me for a while. It is also very difficult to navigate through the house. I never had anything broken before. I’ve always been very independent, so it s@ck a lot not be able to take of myself. I almost felt like crying today. I have family, friends and neighbors who offered their help if needed. I guess I have to learn to ask for help.

I will try to visit other threads, now that I will be home bound for a while and will have more time.