Hi Feyth...thank you I am wondering how my kids should be dealing with their father. I have so far told them that they need to deal with him the way that they feel comfortable. D20 has completely cut him out of her life and told him clearly that she wanted NC with him while he is behaving this way. S22 has limited text contact with him about practical stuff. S26 sees him about once a month for a 10-15 coffee. He is the only one of the children H will meet with and only for a limited time. H excuses himself after 15 minutes saying he has to get back to the office. S22 is very hurt/angry that his father never asks to see him. I really hurt for him as he always felt his dad had his back before and now he gets nothing...I guess my question is should they try harder to get closer H or just wait for H to contact them?
