He said that after he told me he wanted a divorce and I started my "divorce busting" and being happy and doing things for myself, he took that as I had moved on and that was his green light to get physical with this girl. He said I wasn't his wife anymore and the only thing that made me his wife was a piece of paper.
This is why Sandi's rule exists. Dont believe anything he says.
Seriously, he thought it was OK to sleep with someone else, because your life didnt end when he said he wanted a divorce? That makes ZERO sense.
Let's say you hadnt done that. He would have slept with her anyway and said he did it to prove to you that he wanted to move on.
He's going to do whatever it is that he's going to do. You are only responsible for you. If you dont want to spend Thanksgiving with him, then dont do it.
