New to the 180. Help?

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I only found out about the physical portion of their affair yesterday. It's been an awful couple days. They ended it because they're both getting in trouble for it. Who knows what feelings are still there though.

No i I don't particularly want to spend thanksgiving ina cabin with him and play house. It hurts to be around him and even look at him.

He said that after he told me he wanted a divorce and I started my "divorce busting" and being happy and doing things for myself, he took that as I had moved on and that was his green light to get physical with this girl. He said I wasn't his wife anymore and the only thing that made me his wife was a piece of paper.