I told him he needed to be a more consistent part of our son's life.
Id avoid telling him what HE needs to do. You can be the voice for your son, but I would frame it as what your son needs vs what you think your H needs to do.
Originally Posted By: G_Main
Would letting him have the most depressing and lonely thanksgiving ever be good for him?
Who knows?
I would focus on what YOU want out of this Thanksgiving. I cant imagine it's to play house with a guy in another relationship. So what do you want your holiday to look like?