New to the 180. Help?

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We had rented a cabin to stay in with friends for thanksgiving. Our friends no longer want to go as they think he's a pig and don't want to play a part in letting him come back and play house and happy family. He's really disappointed that they no longer want to go and now it would literally be us and our son.

He mentioned today that after he gets out of the marine corps, he needs to find himself again as a person and be alone and live alone. Fine. I told him he needed to be a more consistent part of our son's life. He calls about once or twice a week and our baby is only 2.5, but he knows and he misses his daddy.

I suggested today that he go up there to the cabin with our son by himself. Not in a spiteful way, but just so they could spend time together.

Would letting him have the most depressing and lonely thanksgiving ever be good for him? 😂 I feel like I should just let him even if he asks me to go. We're amicable enough that he'd ask for my company. Or maybe he'd just feel sorry for himself. Who knows