Yup .... its your fault you did not slay the dragon in her fairy tale right?? Holidays do seem to have a way to make the MLCrs poke out of the tunnel just enough for them to cast blame for all the traditional family type stuff they are missing out on. This time of year it has to be tough for someone who blew up a family to witness the trick-o-treating, future Turkey day plans ... and Christmas coming down the hill like a run away sled with kiddos on it.
She seems to be contacting you more lately and you are handling it well ... stay in your zone and just monitor her without getting sucked in as you are. Again .. you really have done very well with all this and have shown great strength which I imagine deep down she is drawn to.
