Well it's been a week since my last post. Just a quick update. So I have been doing well with the GAL and not focusing so much on W. Went to the gym quite a few times this week and even went to the movies alone 1 night. Been trying to spend time with my boys whenever I get a chance.
Here is the "problem" I am having. I think it is either starting to work or is coinciding with a change in her. She has been different since going on her trip where she said she did a lot of reflecting. Every night she has been reading the boys bedtime stories and tucking them in. She has been keeping up with all the house work. Decorating the house and planned our trick or treat party. The hard part for me is she is interacting with me in our day to day activities almost as if nothing ever happened.
We don't have any ILYs or hugs.(except on Sat night we did end up in bed together and did everything but ML.). She texts me about minor things while I'm at work. She talks to me like we used to when we are together.(no R talk). My question is do I follow her lead or do I keep my distance and follow Sandis rules like I had been?
Just to be clear I am still working on me. Still going to IC, but for a month or 2 she seemed to be down in the dumps whenever she was home. Keeping to herself and not interacting at all. Also finding any excuse not to be home together but none of that since her trip.
Me:42 W:37 M:18 T:23 3S: 4,7,10 EA 6/16 ILYBNILWY 7/16 9/16 separate BR 10/16 Discernment Counseling She's moving out 1/17