Hi Irish, that's an interesting message from your W. I think there's some blame shifting going on there. Instead of taking full responsibility for her own actions and choices, she's looking at you and saying - he should have, why didn't he etc.
I thought your reply was fine BTW. Of course if you are ever unsure, you can always post here before responding and your chums will chip in.
Sounds like you are generally doing well as usual Irish :-) xx
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus