We're in-house separated in separate bedrooms. So, I had to add "come into my bedroom" as I have the MBR, and she's in the guest room.
I might be little obsessed with having sex with her, somewhat agree with u. As I mentioned before, I'm not even sure if she's willing to do it with me, as she has said she doesn't want me to touch her ever again. But, it wasn't really a part of our marriage (even when we were trying to get pregnant for a year or so, while enjoyable, it was routine, and there was no variety, which I really want to do now). I'd like to see, if she ever agrees to it, if we can find real enjoyment from it, as we never really did in our marriage. If I can keep my emotions out of it (hard to do, I know), might it be beneficial?
And, I'm not harping on it, it's been rare that I make a comment on it, but, every once in I want to see what she's thinking. Other than those few comments, I've done fairly well detaching, not talking to her about almost anything outside of our S.
As always, I appreciate all comments, including 2x4's.
M 40 W 40 S 2.5 Together 13 years Married 11 years BD: 09/23/16 PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16 Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16 A ended 10/10/16
