New to the 180. Help?

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Ok. Start with a beginners mind. So like I'm doing this again from the time he told me he wanted a divorce. Reevaluate, be happy, look good and take care of me first. Don't worry about him. I set new goals because the situation has changed, right?

I guess now I'd just be confused about appreciating the little victories because I dont know what hes doing just to appease me and make me feel better or whats genuine. I know that recognizing small changes is important for encouragement and to know youre doing something right.

He's going to get in trouble at work, and so will she because everyone knows. I was the last to find out. Go figure. So he will have to suffer the consequences of his actions in some form. Whether thats administrative actions or bigger, he'll get his peepee slapped. (Its a term we always used in the mil. Dont ask me why.)

He's in for another ride with getting in trouble. Maybe it will scare him straight. Hes an idiot though, so maybe thats thinking a little too ambitiously. :P

On a side note, I was down another 2lbs this morning. Only 15 away from my high school weight of 120. I cant complain there!